I’ve always been a
writer. Always. Even before I was published, I used to write all the time. And when
I’m not writing for fun, I work as a professional copywriter. Words are my life
and I’d be lost without them.
But lately I’ve been
using words in a different way. Rather than writing them down, I’ve been using
my voice.
It all started in January when I got invited to a StoryTelling Corner
in Leamington Spa. I’d presented many times in a professional capacity and I
was no stranger to the stage, but reading out fiction that you’ve put together
yourself - knowing you’re going to get direct feedback - is nerve-racking.
I chose to go back to
the start and tell the story of my first book, Bird. I described how it came
about, and then I did a short reading from it. I didn’t want to just read, I
wanted to tell my story. It was a storytelling event after all.
To my surprise, I
actually think I got a better reaction from the story of how I came to write
the book than the actual reading itself. I suppose anyone could read the story
at any time, but insight into a writer’s mind is something you don’t always get.
Especially when I do have a very unusual imagination. I definitely concern my husband
at times!
This experience got me
hooked and I’ve done several similar events now through the year. And with each one I’ve learnt so much about storytelling. It’s more than just reading
from the novel that you spent months putting together. You need to be able to captivate the audience so they’re hanging on your every word. You need to use your voice as
much as your language.
The biggest surprise
of all this year, though, came when I went to a slightly different event. It
was at a business networking meeting and for the first time ever I decided to
tell a very personal story about a dreadful thing that happened to me. There
were lessons I’d learned and a message I wanted to convey, and I thought making
it personal would be more impactful.
I’d never spoken about
anything so personal to a room full of people before, and I was nervous about
the response. But the response I got was incredible, and totally unexpected. People were very
moved by the content, but most of all people told me they felt drawn into what
I'd been talking about. ‘You can tell you’re a storyteller,’ someone had
said, to which everyone in the room agreed.
I thought back over
what I’d said and I realised that I hadn’t just relayed a terrible event, I’d
walked them through each moment of it. I’d done the old "show not tell" and it
had really worked. I hadn’t consciously done it, it was just the only way I knew. But the impact was massive.
Everyone has a story
to tell. We have lives packed full of them. But if you really want to tell that
story, then make sure you show it. Set the scene, build the characters and draw
your audience in. Even if it’s real life, use your words to show them what
happened, and use your voice to dramatise it.
If you have something to
say, then surely you want people to listen to it. You’ll only achieve that if you
say it in the right way and demand their attention. Don’t waste any
opportunity. Go for it!